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When “Mature,” “Anxious,” and “Focused” Meant Something Else
Many Gen X and Millenial women are reaching perimenopause and finding themselves asking a question they never expected: Why does everything feel harder now? For years—decades even, things may have looked “fine” on the outside. You were described as mature for your age. Maybe you were deeply focused, had strong interests, or were known for being organized and responsible. If challenges showed up, they were often labeled as anxiety. That was me. Perimenopause has a way of shi
havingoursay
4 days ago1 min read


Why Are Girls- Especially Black Girls Diagnosed Last?
Girls are diagnosed with autism years after white boys show the same signs. Not occasionally. Not in isolated cases. Consistently, and across the research. That is not a coincidence. It is what happens when a system is built to find one kind of child and overlooks everyone else. As a speech-language pathologist, I have sat across from families who spent years being told their daughter was difficult, dramatic, or socially immature — only to learn much later that she was autist
havingoursay
7 days ago3 min read


Choosing Toys That Support Language and Play
I love using toys in therapy—almost as much as I love playing with them. What may look like “just playing” is actually children learning, communicating, and making sense of their environment. When you select toys that support language and play, children develop language, practice social skills, and connect meaningfully with others. As a speech-language pathologist, I shop for toys with intention. Yes, they should be fun—but they should also support learning. The toys I choose
havingoursay
Jan 212 min read


When Should I Seek Speech and Language Therapy for My Child?
Many caregivers wonder whether their child’s speech or language differences are something they’ll “grow out of” or a sign that professional support may help. While every child develops at their own pace, there are times when seeking guidance from a speech-language pathologist (SLP) can make a meaningful difference. Signs to Watch For You may want to consider a speech and language evaluation if your child: Uses fewer words than expected for their age Has difficulty understandi
havingoursay
Jan 51 min read
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